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Consent and Boundaries for Mere Humans

April 23, 2018
7:59 pm

 

 

 

 

 

 

Recently, there has been great progress in people teaching consent and boundaries. There are many handy logos and catchphrases to teach and remind people of the perfect behavior in ideal scenarios.

But what about us imperfect people in real life scenarios? How does someone whose job it is to watch and enforce those boundaries in very vulnerable and intimate settings handle broken boundaries and miscommunication? Special guest Dr. Jen La Riz of Mission Control takes the goal of perfect consent and brings it down to a very human level.

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We are listening, but are we Understanding?

January 22, 2018
8:21 pm

10pm Monday night on Sex Cels

“Loneliness does not come from being alone, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important.”
– Carl Jung

Words are powerful. They effect the way we think, the way we feel, even the way we view things. In this era, we can connect ideas near the speed of light. Communication is at an all time. We are hearing each other, but are we speaking the same language?
We connect to the words we use, meaning we have learned in schools and from peoples usage around us. But we also connect an emotional connotation from our personal experiences and relations to the words. “Red” might mean love or passion to some, and anger or violence to others. “Moist” might make some mouths water, while it sets others teeth on edge.
The words around discussing Sex are no different. Since the subject of sex has been veiled by euphemisms, double talk, and sly “entendres”, and confused by shifting medical and legal jargon. Impassioned discussions and frank discussions often seem to become quickly heated while everyone feels unheard and dismissed. But cut through the heated emotion, you will often find people saying many of the same things in different words and phrases. Other times you will find people just don’t understand points of view because their understanding of the definitions and experiences of certain words is limited.
How do we get past the hurdle of subjective language and really communicate?

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What the Orgasm Survey, InCels, and Weinstein tells us about current state of sex in America

October 16, 2017
9:42 pm

Did your last partner cum?
Men in America’s surprising answer, as well as Weinstein’s crying on the edge of a bed that a woman wouldn’t let him assault her because he is fat, says a lot about how people view women and their role in the pleasure and ego of men.
Coming up, on Sex Cels.
10 pm

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Licking The Lolli

August 28, 2017
4:36 pm

There are many out there who say they have just the right trick for the best blow job.
But our own Goth Kitty is going to give us her take on how to give great head, live on our stream, in the moment, blow by blow.
Tune in tonight for Goth Kitty – Blow Job 101, Bonus Course.
If anyone wants to follow along at home and tell us how it is working for you, chat room and phone lines will be open.
10pm, live, on Radio Valencia.

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Getting Frisky with Goth Kitty

August 14, 2017
1:40 pm

Goth Kitty is back to indulge us in more naughty tales from her personal archives, and to tell us about her favorite and least favorite penises.
10pm Monday on Sex Cels

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That Doesn’t Go There! – Sex Cels

August 7, 2017
8:17 pm

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Bad advice and sketchy products – Tonight we will discuss a few things that, despite what web snake oil salesmen say, should not go there.Bad advice and sketchy products – Tonight we will discuss a few things that, despite what web snake oil salesmen say, should not go there.

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